our brain to make judgments about people, facts, situations or feelings, compares with the consideration of any fact real "model", in memory-resident "ideal model".
fact, there is, for each of us, an ideal model for everything, beauty, news, love, morality etc.
The ideal model of love is our first love, or the one received by his mother, sincere, total, selfless, that does not require reciprocity.
It 's really difficult to find someone who can give us that love is comparable, at par, with the ideal model, or a mother's love, but it is very easy to be disappointed, as one moves away from the other.
The above suggests two simple reasons: 1 - is not reasonable to expect to find the ideal love, it exists only between mother and child, 2 - if your love relationship, a comparison with your model ideal does not stand up, ask yourself what, on the other, you get close to his ideal model.
Even so is quite complicated, but we must take into account an additional factor: whatever the intensity of love that binds a couple, each person's freedom remains as it is, despite every good intention of wanting to do without, that is: not if you do not betray want, but you can.
Love almost always is not the ideal one for each member of the couple are free spaces, and options abound.
These days, the bond of marriage is no longer the glue that holds couples. If there are children, they are not the priority, the divorce rate in fact occur in the presence of children. The ideal love (mother-child) is weakening, because new demands are occurring selfish and the ideal model of the new generations, has a different configuration from the past. This model, ideal love watered, easily leads young people to confuse love with any great love, or to seal the marriage. Many marriages today do not last long because they are like the giant with feet of clay, or like the house with a foundation on sand.
The basic social unit, the family, tends to dissolve. At the same time, you begin to notice the fading of the "values" and the decline of "morality." The lack of work, the resulting uncertainty of the future, have changed the three springs that always move the world: sex, power and money, "all at once, the price tag does not matter.
Everyone who looks to the future, understand that it is difficult to predict developments of this, because rapid changes affecting every aspect of human life, this has never happened before. For the first time in human history and everything is changing very rapidly.
hound incurable diseases, pollution of water, air and food is in addition to climatic changes. Wars and genocide do not tend to decline, poverty and hunger are increasing. Fundamentalism and religious wars keep good pace, the self destruction of humanity, with chemical or nuclear weapons, is always around the corner. The policy and its scandals do not show improvement, the world economy is increasingly fragile. The country borders have less and less meaning, invasions in arms have been replaced by peaceful migration issues and not less, integration is a serious problem, now more than ever. The ease with which anyone can move from one point to another planet, facilitates the transmission new diseases, for which the immune system has not prepared defenses. Viruses, bacteria and parasites resistant to antibiotics and pesticides always better (although they are alive, and then respond to the first imperative of life adapted. The immune system, an increasing number of people, goes haywire because it fails to properly manage huge number of new substances is forced to defend the body to neutralize, in all this, another important role to play the little-known distress (read the post, "Who depresses the SI). The increasingly rapid movement of planetary people and goods has already crippled the capacity, control and management of the phenomenon, in many countries. The distribution and movement of drugs tends to increase dramatically. The gangs have infiltrated deeply in the economy and institutions of many countries.
Some of the problems mentioned have always been part of human history and, for better or worse, have always been resolved. Others are new and certainly not easy to solve, but what really discouraging is the fact that humanity has ever been called upon to resolve, all together, many problems, the real capacity of the implementation of possible solutions is legitimate to have more than some doubts.
the catastrophic highlight the fact that impossible to solve, together, these problems. Logic says that solutions exist, as human history shows that it is necessary to solve them simultaneously.
It 'important to recognize the real need of having to cope with the above problems and find appropriate solutions in a timely manner. A saying in my country says: "While studying u u medicu malatu Sinni goes", or "while the medical studies (the case) the patient dies.
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